How To Know Whom Your Real Friends Are

 Here's my #4 How To Guide Edition :)) This edition will be talking about "How To Know Whom Your Real Friends Are" !

You might have got a friend whom you think is good enough,but then at the end they're actually trying to hurt and mock you down.People these days are likely acting that way.Almost everyone.It's hard to deal with people who own such particular behaviors.

So here are a few guides from me for you to know who the real ones are :)

1 . Does Your Friend Supports You ?

     A true friend should make you feel needed,confident,and better about being alive.If your friend is always putting you down and never gives you a kind word when you need it,then that friend is not true.If you want to know if your friend is a good friend,see if they make comments which encourage you.

2 . Does Your Friend Listens You ?

    Your friend should take time to listen to what you have to say.In a true friendship,both people should be sharing their thoughts and getting feedback.If you find that your friend is always taking about his/her problems,but is always bored or distracted as soon as it's time for you to share yours,then you may have false friends on your hands.

3 . Do They Make Time For You ?

     A true friend will make time for you no matter what.Though life is hectic and it's hard to have enough time to sleep and eat,a true friend will always make time for you,especially if you need it.


4 . A 50/50 Relationship

      Both people should put the same amount of effort into the friendship / relationship,whether it's communication,making the time to hang out,or just helping each other out with something.If you're giving your all to the friendship,then your friend should be doing it too.


5 . If Your Friend Sticks To Their Word

       If your friend never seems to do what they say they'll do,eaves you stranded,or forgets about the plans you've made,then you of course do not have a true friend.It's okay to waver sometimes,but if your friend never seems to do what they say they'll do,then they obviously don't value your time.


6 . Does Your Friend Makes You Happy ?

        One last important thing.Friendship is about making you feel less alone and to enjoy life even more and it shouldnt make you less excited about the world.You shouldn't be less happy hanging out with your friend than you are when you're alone.


    I guess that's all for this #4 How To Guide edition ! :) I hope this helps you and never feel falter when you'd like to talk to me ;)








 Goodluck !